It's Not Your Fault

It's Not Your Fault

Latest Episodes

17: Gird your Loins
May 10, 2021

In part three of inside the mind of a Narcissist, Chelsea & Emily begin to discuss how to cope with the Narcissist in your life. 

16: Susie Sucks...sorry to anybody named Susie
April 26, 2021

This is their reality. This is their normal. This is how it should be. This is their world and we're just living in it, succumbing to their wants and needs 100% of the time. This is Part Two of inside the mind of a Narcissist. 

15: Punch Me in the Face and Tell Me I Suck
April 19, 2021

Ever wonder what a Narcissist is literally thinking? Do they actually mean what they're saying or are they just saying it? How they treat you... are they sincere in their feelings, their actions, and their reluctant apology? On this episode, Chelsea &

14: Drop Kick Him Off the Deck
April 12, 2021

In part three of Coming to Terms, Chelsea tells us the one boundary she had with Jack (it's a big one) and Emily shares the secret ingredient of what makes you a psycho bitch. Terms discussed: Boundaries, Narcissistic Supply in the form of Sleep Deprivati

13: You're a Zoologist Living in a Garbage Truck in New Zealand
April 05, 2021

Part Two of Coming to Terms: Emily & Chelsea cover the three stages of a Narcissistic relationship, and ––arguably–– the most effective tactic in keeping you in the relationship, Future Faking.

12: Coming to Terms PT 1
March 29, 2021

Let's talk terms. We took a reddit thread on all things NPD and are matching it to our stories and other information we've come across. In this episode we cover: Cognitive Dissonance, Hoovering, & Love Bombing.

11: Eat your Zinc!
March 22, 2021

In the second part of talking sabotage, Chelsea shares how Jack fed off her in the relationship (more Narcissistic Supply) and Emily has some sound life advice for everyone.

10: Praise be to Baby Jesus
March 15, 2021

We're talking sabotage. How did your Narcissist sabotage you in the relationship? Was it a slow or quick burn? The worst part? You only know the sabotage exists when you get out of the kitchen (pun kind of intended).

9: Double is A Lot Less than Single
March 08, 2021

Emily nails down why Chelsea wrote letters to Jack which poses the question: was it enough? Will anything you do or anything you say ever be enough?... Will YOU ever be enough?

8: Half of that is Scrap Metal
February 28, 2021

The end of the ABC's of TLC for our NPD boys. Emily shares her experience and Chelsea leaves us on a cliffhanger.