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Latest Episodes

Next-Level Listening
December 08, 2024

My sons taught me an important lesson about listening. You can't just listen, you have to prove it. That's what makes listening "next-level."

Parenting is an act of faith
November 17, 2024

My costliest mistake as a parent was trying to make my sons' world of curiosity and exploration more like the adult world.For more like this, check out https://www.neiltambe.com/characterbychoice.

Halloween and Surplus
November 10, 2024

In this episode I talk about the three types of surplus we try to create - money, time, energy - and how the generosity of our neighbors make Halloween awesome on our block.

When in doubt, just smile
November 03, 2024

We have a rhythm in how we act to folks who are passing in an out of our lives. It's these interactions - with the people we will only see once, or, see infrequently - that will be what our community's culture feels like. We don't have to be guarded, we

What to ask the mirror
October 27, 2024

Did I earn more trust today?That's the question to ask ourselves at the end of the day if we want to truly assess if we're good people. That's a big revelation I had over the past 7 years and a core concept in Character by Choice.

How much is enough?
October 13, 2024

The question for this week's guided audio reflection is, "How much is enough?"As always, thank you for letting me join you for a few moments of quiet reflection. To learn more about the book Character by Choice, visit https://www.neiltambe.com/character

Abundance
October 13, 2024

In this episode I talk about the central question in the Character by Choice chapter on abundance. Can we innovate and grow our way through all our problems?To check out the book, visit: https://www.neiltambe.com/characterbychoice

What do we want our community to be like?
October 06, 2024

This is a five minute audio reflection on the question, "What do we want our community to be like?"Thanks for letting me join you for a few moments of quiet.

Why Goodness?
October 06, 2024

In this episode I make my case for why we should be good people. I think it's because that's the way to preserve two things: living in a world without rampant corruption, and, living in a world where we have freedom.

Why am I here?
September 22, 2024

This is a guided audio reflection on the question "Why am I here?"Thanks for letting me join you for five minutes of quiet.