Your Turned on Desire

Your Turned on Desire


Latest Episodes

75: Deconstructing Sexuality, Religion, and Rainbow Sheep: A Conversation with the NakedPastor
November 18, 2024

When one starts confronting their sexual relationship, it’s common to start deconstructing and evolving their beliefs around a lot of other things too. Because spirituality and sexuality are deeply connected, when we deal with the challenges in our sexual

74: Understanding Emotional Connection with Cory Ivins (coach for men)
November 12, 2024

Emotional Connection has always been the foundation to a good intimate life. So why do some of us lose this awareness and start the game of tennis where we go back and forth between sex first or emotional connection first? The perspective that emotional c

73: Be More Selfish (as a spiritual practice) With Guests Britt Hartley and Corrie Woods
October 27, 2024

Are spirituality and sexuality connected?Is spirituality different for women than men? Has religion done a disservice to women when it comes to their overall wellbeing and their sex lives? We discuss these questions and more in this episode with Jamee and

72: Navigating His Reactions to Sexual Rejection
October 15, 2024

You saying No to sex is not the problem. His responses to your no are the problem. Link to details about my private coaching program and links to schedule your free consultation with me:Private Program | Your Turned on Desirehttps://the-turned-on-woma

71: Should I Keep Insisting for Emotional Connection or Give Up the Quest?
October 08, 2024

Its time we put an end to the idea that men need sexual connection before they can connect emotionally and start prioritizing emotional connection first always. Why? Because its what women are saying they need before they happily have sex with their hus

70: Stop Trying to Control Women’s Clothing Choices (and other things modesty isn’t)
October 01, 2024

Does the way religion teach women about modesty cause more harm than good? We are going to discuss this idea with a guest named Buck. He is a Christian, a father and a husband and he noticed the harm that had been done on women and men with the emphasis t

69: Why New Positions and Giving In to Sex Are Not the Answers to Improving Your Intimate Life
September 24, 2024

Lots of people think that in order to make their intimate lives better in their marriages that they need books on better positions and they need to just keep giving into sex until they like it better. Almost like sex can be approached the same we approach

68: Beyond Attraction: Unpacking Power, Rejection, and Intimacy in Marital Sex
September 03, 2024

Sex isnt just about attraction and desire in marriage. Sex is a mixture of playing with power dynamics, avoiding rejection, and learning what true intimacy is. We are unpacking some of this in this episode. And its a good thing to unpack this because wo

67: “I am too tired” Is Not An Excuse. It’s Real.
August 30, 2024

Women are too tired to have sex with their husbands because they are the kind of tired that husbands cant possibly understand or imagine. Its not just something women are saying to get out of sex. We need to stop ignoring the Im too tired response an

66: The Infection of Bad Sex in Marriage
August 25, 2024

Why are so many marriages struggling with bad sex lives? Why are so many men wishing their women wanted more sex but so many women arent wanting sex at all? Why do troubled and struggling sex lives feel like its a pandemic that has hit marriage? And isn